The Three Categories of Step Parents
Posted on January 13, 2008
Filed Under Ex Spouse Relationship, Relationships |
If you are a step parent, you most likely fall into one of the following three categories. Each type of step parent deals with problems unique to their role.
- Step Parent “A” is the spouse of the custodial parent. The family in which the child(ren) spend the majority of time with. This step parent has what I like to refer to as “Home-field Advantage“. This step has considerable power and influence over the rearing of the child, very often more so than the “non-custodial” parent.
- Step Parent “B” is the spouse of a 50/50 custody arrangement. The 50/50 step parent is becoming more common. This type of arrangement “levels” the playing field for step parents, yet can create it’s own problems, especially if the two households have poor communication.
- Step Parent “C” is the spouse of the “non-custodial” parent. This is the most dificult position of all. I refer to this step parent as the “Step-Below” step parent. This person exerts the least amount of influence and has potential for the greatest amount of pain.
What category do you fall under? Knowing your role may offer better perspective in viewing your own circumstances.
If you like this post, please consider buying me a cup of coffee.Related posts:
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